I'd like to thank everyone for their support following the ugly racial comment an "anonymous" poster left on my blog. And thanks to my site meter and some friends at YMX, I know who it is. The city and IP address has been verified and this post is for the sole purpose of exposing him.
Mykel was too much of a coward to post his name on his comment, and he must've thought I was a complete moron who didn't know how to connect the dots. I'm really not surprised because I've seen how he treated people who disagreed with him at YMX. Then when they disagreed with him or had him backed into a corner he couldn't get out of...he called their Christianity into question. Nice.
I think the saddest part of all this is that Mykel is a youth pastor. If he casually throws out slurs like "chink" on a blog, just how does he treat his students? He has been entrusted with leading kids to Jesus and he calls a 5 year old girl a "chink cheerleader". I wonder if he uses the "n" word or spic to describe kids too.
If this post sounds angry...well, sorry. If you have a problem with me...then man up and take it out on me. Leave my child out of it.
33 Comments:
That's unreal. Are you seriously so much of a racist to come on to someone else's blog and call their daughter names because you can't get your head out of your ass and practice what you preach in regards to Christianity? And try try to do it anonymously!? Own your words. Apparently you missed a LOT of Jesus' teachings, Mykel. I find it rather sad that you've now chosen to go and make your blog private. I wonder what you're afraid of. Here's an idea. Go away. You are no longer at YMX, so move on.
Angie, Consider the source. he's not happy unless he brings everyone else down to his pathetic level. To my knowledge he hasn't been in ministry for a while. At least that is what his blog states. EVEN STILL. you don't call someone's 5 year old names.
Recently Derek blogged about something (which I'm sure you saw as i knwo you still read our blogs0 and Mykel posted annonymously there attacking our relationship.
Whatever, he's so unhappy with his own life. He'll make up some lame excuse of "I don;t know what you are talking about" or "It wasn't me."
My all time favorite is: "I'm going through alot of crap and didn't mean to do that."
Then again according to him, i'm just a yes woman to my husband so what would I know.
I am so very sorry he did that to you.
Oh yeah, another excuse would be "Well I'm just so mad that YMX banned me." Whatever.....(for the record he contacted Derek and said "Are you happy I got banned from YMX?" As if we gave a rats patootey.
::shakes head::
This is not unusual for Mykel. It's not unusual for Keyboard Rambos. In fact, he tried to pull the exact same thing on my blog using an old email address that he must have thought I didn't know about, and when I called him out on it, he went and used an anonymous proxy server.
The way I look at it, it was either him, or someone stole his computer and stayed in good ol' Victorville and used his email address and tapped into his IP as well.
And just think....at least part of my dismissal from the YMX community had to do with standing up to people like that, and people who called my wife's faith tradition into question.
If you ever hear from him again, I can just about guarantee what he'll say: he'll apologize because he was going through some sort of stressful event in his life, or some other excuse, as if to justify whatever lashing out or inappropriate statement that was made. Engage him on that, and about 2 weeks to a month later, he'll do it again. Same pattern--all the time.
I'm Derek Tang, and I approve of this message.
Angie, I'm glad you decided to name names. I am just flat out tired of people hiding behind fake names or alleged anonymity. It's not rocket science to track IP addresses of commenters.
More importantly, I'm sorry this happened to you. I don't know what would cause such an attack. As you mentioned, if he had something to say to you he should have said it. Going after a child is beyond any possible explanation.
Repentance is apologizing with a change in behavior... there's always room for that.
Thanks everybody. He's a coward, plain and simple.
Angie, I am so sorry that this happened to you.
I seriously wonder how ignorant some people must be to not know that they can be traced that easily online.
Mykel is a proven loser over and over again! He thinks he's playing some sort of mind games with people but just really making himself look like and idiot!
To take a shot at a child is as low as you can go. As I think has already been said he'll answer for it someday!
I know this isn't the 'Christian' thing to say...but I would love to give Gracie a pair of steel toed sneakers and then help her find the guy so she can give him a good swift kick...any where she chooses!
Pathetic, sad and pathetic!
~Lois
My heart dropped when I read this. You have a wonderful daughter and no one should ever tell you or her otherwise!
As Adam said, there is room for repentance. It could happen, although this is a pattern I've seen play out for 7 years and I think the ninja should be called out!
Dude...if it was someone else using my computer who did that (not that I believe that for a second) you had better believe that somewhere in that note I would have left one hell of an apology begging for forgiveness. Not one "I'm sorry" or anything.
Notice that there's been a comment deleted by it's author. Luckily, I get email notifications on my blog comments!
Mykel has left a new comment on your post "Busted!":
Wow,
All you Christians sitting in judgment. How nice and "Christian" of you.
1. I have no idea who posted that horrible comment. If I have something to say to anyone I would say it to them, not make insidious comments about their children.
2. I want nothing to do with YMX or anyone affiliated with that crap organization.
3. Angie, I'm sorry someone made comments about your child. But it was not me.
4. Please remove this blog post as it is libel.
No, this is not libel. There are no last names or locations used.
And as far as "someone else" doing this, it's your IP address so it sounds like you either have a alter ego or you just threw your wife under the bus.
If you don't want anything to do with YMX, how did you know about this blog post? You've cut us all out, so either you're still reading blogs (and thus want something to do with YMX) or you made the comment (and thus still want something to do with YMX).
Funny how in one post you knew who it was and in the other you didn't. Ok, here's an idea: go away. If you can't do that, at least get your story straight.
Mykel, you are all the things that you've ever accused anyone else of being when they didn't see things your way...is that me being judgemental? Maybe, but you know what? In your case, I'm okay with that!
Careful everyone. Mykel's computer might get mad and start posting anonymous things on your blogs too.
Did I not tell you this is what he would do???? Denial...it's all he knows how to do.
He claims to be done with religion and so called "Christianity" and quite frankly I am "happy" to see that because he does nothing to build up the kingdom of God.
He's to wrapped up in his own misery to see the world and people for what it is.
Cathy, I would NEVER be hopeful from any form of an apology from Mykel...on anything EVER. He see's nothing wrong with hsi actions. He thrives on working people up. He'll never own up to his mistakes, and he'll always attack. He's doen ti to Derek and I for almost 4 years now, claiming he did not know who left comments from his IP on Derek's blog. He never apologized to me for things he said in May of last year and he used quite the explitive when called oout for his actions by me on facebook.
He is the most unremorseful person I know. He'll never change because he's right YMX and anyone else who he ever associated with are a bunch of lying sacks of______. In his eyes......
you know alot could be resolved when one comes clean and takes ownership of their actions.
Angie,
I love you so much, you are like a Sister I never had. Please know that you are loved and even though there is hate in the world it is not everywhere. *HUGS*
**Mykel has left a new comment on your post "Busted!":
Wow,
All you Christians sitting in judgment. How nice and "Christian" of you.
1. I have no idea who posted that horrible comment. If I have something to say to anyone I would say it to them, not make insidious comments about their children.
2. I want nothing to do with YMX or anyone affiliated with that crap organization.
3. Angie, I'm sorry someone made comments about your child. But it was not me.
4. Please remove this blog post as it is libel.**
1. Honestly, if you had anything to say to anyone and you actually went and did it, that'd be a surprise. Yet, in all the years I've "known" you via this type of medium, you have been anything BUT surprising.
2. Neither do I, but this goes beyond that. Well beyond that.
3. Pardon me for saying that this attempt at an apology seems to lack contrition. Failings of this medium, I guess.
4. If you want the truth be told, your "evidence" is circumstantial at best. So go ahead and take it up to that notch if you want to. Angie, we may have our difference based on what happened at YMX, but if you get a subpoena, let me know. I'll introduce what happened on my blog as evidence as well. Might as well make it a blog party.
"chink cheerleader"......I shall refrain from responding to that out of respect for whomever else may read Angie's blog, because there's plenty of offensive language to be used. It's people who make comments like that who make life difficult for people like Grace and me and millions of others. Just keep on perpetuating the "Ugly American" persona, why don't you? What next? "If you don't like being called that, go on home where you came from?"
Utterly idiotic and shameful.
Brian, Mykel's computer has already done that to mine. So has his ISP and two of his email addresses.
P.S. to anyone who knows what I'm referring to, ask me about j. reeves sometime soon.
Oh, and this isn't a threat or anything, but I swear, one more time you talk sh** to or about my wife, and it's almost going to make the drive to Victorville worth it to let you know just how I really feel about how you've treated her for quite some time now.
Emphasis on "almost." Hell if I'm going to go through all that trouble for you. Carry on hiding behind the safety of the keyboard and monitor.
What a drama queen he is! He loves being the center of attention!
I think the title belongs to you. Seeing as how you looove the attention this has brought to you. So, what proxy server is this one??? What lovely town are we claiming to be from today?
Get a life loser and leave my friend alone.
This one's for you, Grace.
Wow...I can't believe I missed all this "excitement." But I still feel the need to comment (of course I do)!
For someone who wanted folks to be so open-minded about his views on YMX, it's amazing how he can be so stinkin' racist...against a little kid nonetheless. Sick-o.
Gracie, don't let losers get you down. You are more beautiful and more talented and more loving than some people will ever be...and your mommy is, too.
"To everyone else. I hope you are happy in your judgments. Everything I believe about YMX was proven true by your comments. Not one person other than Katie emailed me and she didn't even ask me she outright accused me. But it's all good. I know know what Christianity is all about and I'm finding that I want nothing to do with it."
And yet you expect people to give you the benefit of the doubt given your track record for being (at the very least) inflammatory and hateful in things you've said to others. Part of me really feels sorry for you Mykel but at the same time I also know that the Bible says you reap what you sow. These comments are merely the consequences for your actions in the not so distant past.
Mykel,
Twice now you have accused those posting here of behavour unbecoming of a Christian, and say now you want nothing to do with it. First, for your sake, I hope that is not true. Second, what your seeing here is not at all unbiblical. You are witnessing your brothers and sisters call you out to repent of this act, as well as defending their sister in faith. They are angry because the devil has deceived YOU.
18But those things which proceed out of the mouth come forth from the heart; and they defile the man.
We are instructed to come to our brother and point out the error of his ways, then take him to the church if he does not listen to his bother. Then to discard him if he still doesnt listen.
It seems you want to discard your brothers, this is sad.
Mykel,
1. Yes, I flat out accused you because for the last 4 years you have done nothing but call people names, ridicule them, and cause a commotion wherever you go, be it here, YMX, YS, etc. I for one have been the target of man y of your tirades and you know what? I call a spade a spade. Anyone who has posted here knows this about me and if it is hurtful, and no one says anything...how am I to repent, apologize and change so as to be sensitive to others without knowledge of my wrongdoing? I called you out because what happened on YOUR computer is downright disgusting. And, as usual, it's not your fault at all. It never is. Even when the filth comes from your mouth. You seem to be able to blame it on a situation you are going through or someone else got to your computer. Even then...you do not apologize for your actions. It's really quite sad.
2. If it wasn't you, I find it rather odd that you went to such great lengths to make your blog private and delete your facebook. Sign of a coward. IMO
3. You call me judgmental??? Me? The person who has accused me of far worse things on YMX and the person who told me to F-off for defending Angie and her daughter? Wow. That's class right there.
Own your actions. Try showing some concern and care for once. try reaching out to those who you hurt. Read their words on how your actions have left a path of destruction over the last few years. A little repentance goes a long way.
Oh and if you want me to "leave you alone", I'll be happy too, so long as you start leaving me alone and stop going to my blog, and using some proxy server and fake name to do so.
Would be nice to know who DID leave those comments and get an apology for Angie from that "person"
Katie,
Two words:
"Pearls" and "Swine"
:)
Angie,
I know this means nothing to you but I am truly sorry and I offer no explanations for the comment left. I know it hurt you and your family and I take full responsibility for the comment. It was uncalled for and down right wrong for that comment to have been left. I will no longer contact you or visit your blog. If you wish to talk to me I’m sure you have my email or know people who can get it for you as I do not want to publish it here.
I fully repent of my sin before you and God.
God Bless
Mykel
PS - to everyone else,
I am sorry and repent of everything I have every said or done. I offer no excuses.
I am no longer in ministry or for that matter attached to a particular church anymore. I do love God and desire to live for him and I realize my sin and how I have failed.
again, thank you to all that have shown me just how much of a jack ass I am.
Mykel, I know you probably don't expect this, but I accept your apology. Thank you asking forgiveness...it really does mean alot to me. I hope that things go well for you and I harbor no malice toward you. I don't have your email, so if you don't hear from me, please don't think it's because I carry a grudge.
You ask forgiveness...I offer grace. It's what we are called to do and I too strive to live for Him. I fail miserably, but I know that He offers us grace because there's no way we can ever be good enough for Him.
I hope you do check back and see this comment. I mean it with all sincerity.
God bless you, Mykel
Mykel, it takes a big man to admit his wrong and own up.
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